Always Obey The Commandments of God and to ensure that the family is also compliant to the laws of God.
As a Muslim of course, the goal of our lives is to ensure always obey God's commandments.
This
is a sign of our faith in God. If we do not obey the commandments of God
means pronouncement that we say that the testimony can not be accepted by
Allah. It must be followed by action to obey the commandments. In
daily life we need to be obedient to God's commandments linked to the
compulsory; circumcision; should, makruh and haram. I often use
the term to five life principles based on Islamic teachings.
Item must be in the bidding can
not we disobedience such as prayer, fasting, charity and
pilgrimage. While illegal must be left entirely like stealing, adultery,
gossip, hurts others, lie, cheat, mederhaki parents and others.
Anyway
that circumcision was to be adopted as far as possible such as giving charity,
helping people in trouble, organize charity work to help the
community. Things that should be given to a crash on whether to do it or
not, like to eat fish and vegetable-based dishes or food red meat or meat white
tipped. Other activity should like to go touring the country or outside
the country and so on. The priority for the makroh must leave such as
eating a smelly food before going to prayers like petai fruit, garlic and
others. Such as smoking also knocking the majority of teachers in Malaysia
before saying makroh, should be abandoned, and of course I never smoking.
One of the principles that I
hold the lead ship our household has reached the age of 34 years is to ensure
that all family members will comply with the ordinance of God in daily life
activities get facts well. I, as head of the family should give the
example of the wife and kids. My main grip is that we should live
according to the commandments of God as prescribed by Islam. Five things
prescribed by Islam that must be adhered to; illegal; circumcision; should
be disapproved.
I
will make sure that must be done in full, and so is left entirely
illegal. The circumcision will try to do it all the time when there is an
opportunity and need. Things should be a crash either do it or not, while
I am not encouraged to try to leave.
If
you look at the history of education, I am not educated in the
school of religion. At the primary school level only
national schools (1960-1966) and flow entering Secondary English school for
five years. Despite that, I was lucky because my father graduated from
religious school and served as a supervisor of Imam and also as Vice Register
of Marriages. My father also was a religious teacher who taught at several
mosques and madrasas. Such environments allow my life to be educated with
a strong religious discipline, especially with regard to the obligatory
practices claimed by Islam.
Once I
went to the university, my father and I always discuss, exchange views on
issues of economic, political, religious, cultural and other issues that are
relevant to everyday life. During the discussion I would lean towards
thinking academic based on arguments of economic and social sciences, while the
father is more geared to religious thought based on the verses of the Quran and
Hadith. Discussion and exchange ideas like this make me more mature in
understanding and deepen religious tenets from time to time.
In
our family, has become a common practice to take care of their religious duties
in everyday life. Practice prayer emphasis. started
morning prayers (subuh), afternoon
prayer ( zohor) , evening prayer (asar), late evening prayer (Maghrib) and
night prayer (Isya’) has become customary for me to do it in congregation in
the mosque or surau, most do not pray in congregation with my
wife and family at home. However, when the child grew up and have their own
careers, they began to busy with his career, leading the prayers bejemaah is
quite difficult to do at home, so I focus more on doing the prayer at the
mosque.
In
order to improve the skills of my wife and children to read
the Quran, I was taught a teacher of the Koran at home with a three times
weekly schedule. I am thankful to God who has guided our family to
be a literate person is not an expert Quran recitation or memorization.
After
our children finish their studies in colleges and universities, they began to
bring their bows. So I took the initiative to commemorate the children about
the need of prayer and obedience of all tenets of the religion, I occasionally
use the power of mobile phone technology
advances to remember them through SMS messages. I act periodically send
SMS to remember my children of the importance of prayer in time of
urgency. Actions communicate via SMS I am taking this positive progression of
my children.
Thank
God, that God bless me to continuously obey Islamic teach in order to obey God,
was a guide to the wife and kids.
During
the period of marriage until today I had never hit my wife, never happened any
major crisis, loving relationship of husband and wife is
always raging and happiness always grooming, this is due to my desire to have the pleasure of God, whether in
this world and the hereafter. May God give guidance to our family of faith
and our spirit is always inclined to obey the command of Allah. Any how we
hear occur the husband hit against wife, to hear news like
this I can not imagine what kind of human being who has a husband which is
brutal and violent attitude. Imagine who loves when a
slight error continues to hit with seteruk-severity, sedangan during normal
driving husband isterilah place you love, a place of love and nafus melempas
sec. Is it fair with little trouble beating him in such a way.
Besides
praying, reading the Quran every day has become a routine for me and the wife,
and the kids will follow suit read on certain days. With the advancement
of technology and digital Quran Reading
Pen Quran. I was inspired by God to use this tool for influence
way to read the Quran and understand the
contents of the Qur'an. The advanced technology are added to the interest of
our family to continue to read the Quran.Practice reading the Quran has become
a routine agenda by my wife. Now we begin to understand and appreciate the
contents of the Quran by using Quran Reader Pen to hear and appreciate the
contents of the translation of Al-Quran which was on record as
MP3. Appreciation of Al-Quran by this method can better understand
and be able to avoid feeling sleepy during the hearing. Example do the two
of us, God bless now children start is followed soon.
Although
we have tried as much as possible in order to please God in our daily life, but
as usual we will tested by God. I personally have been tested with several
sub-events that could threaten the integrity of our faith and as a devout
Muslim religious law on religion. The human usually would fail when
involved with money. If the pattern of our lives for style and
demonstrating that we as people have money and high status, would involve
spending considerable daily and month, sometimes we spend more than what is
obtained in the month, if this happens we have to spend with way of debt either
through bank loans, loans from friends or credit card.
It
also happen in my life, where I have been using credit cards to cover expenses
in the event of deficiency in any one month. In the nearly 15 years of
operating expenditure to meet the needs of family. I owe the credit card more
than RM40k. now it is becoming a burden for me to pay the balance of
credit card debt that left again at RM15k. Having made negotiations with
the bank I have to pay monthly installment of RM500 per month. Now I begin
to realize and recognize that a head of the family should have a skill to
manage family finances. We must also be careful not to get involved with
the practice of usury, in this case I have failed to make money expenses within monthly budget. Could I face this
calamity as well as consideration of God against my sins. Oh God your
servant is praying for forgiveness and repent for our mistakes and
forgetfulness that disobeyed the orders of Yours. “ Amin Ya Rabil
Alamin”
In conclusion, as the head of a family, I always try to do my best to follow all the commandments of God. but the site as a poor man, once we has offense against God's commands. Islam teaches its followers to always repent and return to square one. Indeed Allah is Compassionate and Receiver our forgiveness. When we repented and God will give us forgiveness and considered as a new born baby into the world. How charity God to us.
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