HAPPY
FAMILY:
The dream of every husband and wife who are married are to achieve
the formation of a Happy Family, though so not all couples achieve success in
their marriage. Marriage couple has to faces many mines and obstacles as a ship sailing on the high seas will
encounter wind resistance, storms, turbulence and other
challenges. For the husband who does not ready with vast knowledge of
managing the family and face the resistance
to manage the family are going down in the middle of the street.
Therefore in order to achieve its noble goals, the husband and
wife must have knowledge and a positive and proactive attitude to enable them
to both help each other in carrying out married life. One way to acquire
knowledge is to undergo a course organized by the parties concerned, as well as
getting a lesson from those who are experienced and have been able to achieve
the formation of a happy family.
This article present a few tips that have been practiced by those
who managed to make the family happy throughout their lives as husband and
wife. Among tips recommended are:
1. Assume Couple Like Yourself :
Assuming the couple as yourself should be cherished, caressed,
loved and respected. Instinct of every human being to get the love and
affection especially for married couples. If husband and
wife can appreciate these tips, it will be mutually be careful in doing such
acts and speech so as not to offend their partners.
Normally for the problematic husband and wife with their egos and try to
uphold the wet threads of respect for others has faded. It was very
different during the part of those in the real of romance, first priority
to practice keep faith in each pair of gestures in daily
interactions. Therefore care must be maintained mutual mate . Couple of
our hearts is a mirror of ourselves. Wherever we go we have a portrait of
the couple brought together. The action of this kind if practiced
regularly, will be a happy marriage.
2. The wife is not a maid:
The majority husband thinks housework is the responsibility of the
wife completely. While in Islam there is no text that says that the wife
must do housework. Islamic teachings say only married women
should obey God and husband. Preserve the dignity and property of the
husband with the best will be offer a place in paradise. For many women this warranty
does not take assignation with the work emanating from the house as they do
over the years. While the husband were taking advantage of this situation
to make a culture that housework should be done solely by the wife.
3. The Wife Is the normal human being:
Wives are women who are full of emotion. If they are
happy with what the feelings and emotions then they will be in a relaxed and
carefree and happy.
On the other hand if they are in a stressful situation and is not
pleased with what is happening, then the feeling will be chaotic and often want
to find a way out of the problem. If the husband is not good enough to take care the heart feeling or his wife. It may be a
third person would take the opportunity to get involved, if the third person of
the family then strain relations will
arise between wives and husbands, and even worse if the third person is another
guy as a friend or peer office mate then
will happen the feeling of expressions sympathy to a friend who is exposed to the
pressure, if not controlled noticed can happen act of love and finally hitching
a low ebb going relationship between husband and wife, and if allowed to
persist can play havoc with the household.
Thus the husband as a leader in the household lead should always
be concerned about the problems and pressures faced by the wife and try to
address as soon as possible and in a short time. If action is taken by the
husband at all times to maintain household harmony and Happy Family can be materialized.
4. Husband should help
wife to ease housework:
The husband should go down and 'bercawat Kote' to equally help the
wife at home, especially on weekends and public holidays. If on weekdays
wife struggled to work in preparing the home such as cooking, cleaning the
floor, clothing and cleaning home for family comfort. Once on the weekend the husband should helped to assist wife doing housework . This action is a form of cooperation that will cheer his
wife. If the husband does not know cooking, He still can help the wife cooking a simple
menu like fried fish or
eggs. Let us see how the joy of the wife when eating food prepared by her
husband.
5. Always Remember Important Dates:
Being human instincts like valued and praised, if the husband made
a surprise by giving a gift to his wife on important dates such as birthdays,
wedding anniversary, Mother's Day, etc., how happy his wife. This can strengthen the ties of
affection and love for the wife to the husband. For this event dose not
have to give precious gift, It’s acceptable by
giving a bunch of flower or a greeting
card, but if the husband is a rich person, it is better to give a
privileged gift to his wife..
Such practices will have a profound impact on instinct
wife. Love and loving wife to her husband will become strong and
accurate. This situation is especially helpful in building Happy Family.
6. Vocation
With Wife:
It is usual for the husband to leave his wife for having
outstation duty. Every once bring your wife to rest at vacation spots and
resorts. When a husband and wife with a break in the Famous Spots: You
will express such joy to the wife as the husband and wife appreciate all your
hard work in doing household chores.
This holiday will also give confidence to the wife that her
husband had a responsibility to his wife and family. When the husband is out of
work for a few days, she did not have feelings of jealousy or
suspicion. Such an atmosphere can strengthen the relationship of husband
and wife each time.
7. Kissing To Wife:
Let us ask ourselves how often we are sending kisses wife resting
because of fatigue after doing homework. If she said is often done, then we are
a husband loving and responsible. If the answer has not been done or not
been done, then we need to make immediate changes to do so. Do we know
that either the husband kiss on the forehead or around the lips while the wife
rest will be able to get rid of the wife feeling tired. Such is the magic power husband kisses his wife.
8. Fulfill The
Wife Need:
Husband and wife must foster openness in discussing family
issues. Open discussion with you wife to solve family problem, when a wife
to express an opinion should be heard by husband, and implemented opinion of
your wife if it's a good opinion and practical. Always talk with wife for
the family plan in the future. Give a chance to the wife to equally contribute
an idea no matter what education back ground her is.
If the wife is often given the opportunity to express an opinion,
it will make her more mature and
confident in solving family problems. At certain times in the absence of
her husband at home, and if there
is a tricky problem his wife can make the right decision in finding a solution.
9. Give Praise To The Wife:
The practice of giving praise to your wife, such as praising her beauty and neatness’
It is an act that can raise the spirit of his wife. Kudos husband made
every time to renew the feelings of love and affection to the husband and
wife. Praise is more meaningful to
wife when it was showing signs of decline and her age is increasingly.
10, Fulfil the Wish of Wife:
Not all wishes of our wife can be fulfilled by the husband. However,
not all legitimate wife requires great expense to do so. Sometimes just looking
for a husband and wife wish for holiday or just stay at home with her for a day,
that's all. If a caring husband occasionally when there is a demand from
your wife to stay with her for the whole day. The wife will be happy when the
husband can fulfilled her wish. She felt she was appreciated and loved by
husband. This will enhance the loving nature of wife to her husband. The extremely good relationship
between husband and wife is one of important factors to achieve the goal of a
Happy Family.
