Monday, July 14, 2014

TRUE LOVE STORY OF A HUSBAND





"TRUE LOVE STORY OF A HUSBAND"

Can we LOVE WIFE WITHOUT OUR TERMS????? * A reflection Make a reality..... read the husbands & wives bride also should .. 

Judging from his age he is not young anymore, even age who already Dusk was approaching evening, Mr. Suyatno 58 years of daily filled with caring for his sick wife is also old. they've been married over 32 years. They were blessed with four children, this is the beginning of trials hit, after his wife gave birth to four children tiba2 legs paralyzed and could not move it happen for 2 years, stepped over his body three years to be felt even weaker, she cannot talk  due to her lips  can no longer be moved. every day Suyatno pack bathing, cleaning up, fed, and raise  her up a bed .Before leaving for work he put her in front of the TV so she does not feel lonely. Though she can not speak but he always saw her smiling, fortunately pacik Suyatno place of business is not so far away from his home so during the day she came home to feed her lunch. afternoon he came home his wife bathe, change clothes and after sunset he accompanied his wife to watch television while telling us that he's just a natural everyday. Although she could only see but can not respond, Mr. Suyanto'm happy even she always tease her every going to sleep. Mr. Suyanto These routines performed approximately 25 years, with him taking care of his wife Patience even while raising their heart into four pieces, now   their kids three of them grown up living the youngest who is still in college. On a day to four children Suyatno They gathered at home parents while to see his mother. Because after their son was married already.  Staying with family and Mr. Suyanto she decided mothers who care for them, she wants only one all children succeed. 
 Beware with elbow sentence primogeniture said "Sir we wanted to take care of since we were little mother saw father mother taking care not a word of complaint out of the lips of the father ....... Father .. not even let us take care of mom ". the boy's tears continued  and said "already the fourth time that we allow the father married again, we think mom  will allow, when you enjoy old father with a sacrifice like this we've not bear to see you, we promise we will take care of the mother as best- alternately either ". Mr. Suyanto answer thing completely unexpected by their children. "My dear (son and daughter)......... If marriage and life in this world just for lust, maybe you will get married ...... but you know with the mom next to me was already more than enough, she has given birth to you .. momentarily choked throat, ... guys who have always longed to be present in this world full of love that no one can appreciate with anything. you try to ask your mother if she wanted the situation is like this. guys want you happy, whether spiritual father left your mother can be happy with the situation is now, you want a father who was a God given health cared for by someone else, what about your mother who is ill. " moment burst cry of  Pak Suyatno children, they also see a small fall tear Suyanto  wife's eyes .. with melancholy eyes staring husband who she loved it .. finally came Mr. Suyanto invited by one of the private TV station to be a resource person and they ask questions of why Suyanto able to survive for 25 years caring for his paralyzed wife.

that's when he burst weeping with studio guests who are present in most of the single woman could not hold back emotion that is where Mr. Suyanto told. "When this world glorifies human love in a marriage, but do not want to give (give time, energy, thought, attention) are vanity. I chose my wife became my life companion, and when he's healthy he too patiently took care of my love, me by heart and his heart is not with the eyes, and he gave me 4 children whose very goods. .. Now she is sick as a sacrifice for our love together .. and it is a test for me, if I can hold a commitment to love what they are.  I am not necessarily looking for a replacement to mention she was sick,,, " Love your husband love your wife ..... ..... love your kids 


Memorandum:

 The story described above is similar to that faced by my story in keeping paralyzed  wife (next to the body - right) has now been almost 15 years to reach past my guard .... Alhamdulillah Allah give guidance to me to continue faithful to our love ....

At this time I'm try to published the  stories ...

God willing, when it is published later you can keep track of the story of this truth.

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