"TRUE LOVE STORY OF A HUSBAND"
Can we LOVE WIFE WITHOUT OUR TERMS????? * A reflection Make a
reality..... read the husbands & wives bride also should ..
Judging
from his age he is not young anymore, even age who already Dusk was approaching
evening, Mr. Suyatno 58 years of daily filled with caring for his sick wife is
also old. they've been married over 32 years. They were blessed with
four children, this is the beginning of trials hit, after his wife gave birth
to four children tiba2 legs paralyzed and could not move it happen for 2 years,
stepped over his body three years to be felt even weaker, she cannot talk due to her lips can no longer be moved. every day Suyatno
pack bathing, cleaning up, fed, and raise her up a bed .Before leaving for work he put
her in front of the TV so she does not feel lonely. Though she can not
speak but he always saw her smiling, fortunately pacik Suyatno place of business
is not so far away from his home so during the day she came home to feed her
lunch. afternoon he came home his wife bathe, change clothes and after
sunset he accompanied his wife to watch television while telling us that he's
just a natural everyday. Although she could only see but can not respond,
Mr. Suyanto'm happy even she always tease her every going to sleep. Mr.
Suyanto These routines performed approximately 25 years, with him taking care
of his wife Patience even while raising their heart into four pieces, now their
kids three of them grown up living the youngest who is still in college. On
a day to four children Suyatno They gathered at home parents while to see his
mother. Because after their son was married already. Staying with family and Mr. Suyanto she decided
mothers who care for them, she wants only one all children succeed.
Beware with elbow sentence primogeniture said
"Sir we wanted to take care of since we were little mother saw father
mother taking care not a word of complaint out of the lips of the father
....... Father .. not even let us take care of mom ". the boy's
tears continued and said "already
the fourth time that we allow the father married again, we think mom will allow, when you enjoy old father with a
sacrifice like this we've not bear to see you, we promise we will take care of
the mother as best- alternately either ". Mr. Suyanto answer thing
completely unexpected by their children. "My dear (son and daughter).........
If marriage and life in this world just for lust, maybe you will get married
...... but you know with the mom next to me was already more than enough, she
has given birth to you .. momentarily choked throat, ... guys who have always
longed to be present in this world full of love that no one can appreciate with
anything. you try to ask your mother if she wanted the situation is like
this. guys want you happy, whether spiritual father left your mother can
be happy with the situation is now, you want a father who was a God given
health cared for by someone else, what about your mother who is ill. " moment
burst cry of Pak Suyatno children, they
also see a small fall tear Suyanto wife's
eyes .. with melancholy eyes staring husband who she loved it .. finally came
Mr. Suyanto invited by one of the private TV station to be a resource person
and they ask questions of why Suyanto able to survive for 25 years caring for his
paralyzed wife.
that's when he burst weeping with studio guests who are present in
most of the single woman could not hold back emotion that is where Mr. Suyanto
told. "When this world glorifies human love in a marriage, but do not
want to give (give time, energy, thought, attention) are vanity. I chose
my wife became my life companion, and when he's healthy he too patiently took
care of my love, me by heart and his heart is not with the eyes, and he gave me
4 children whose very goods. .. Now she is sick as a sacrifice for our
love together .. and it is a test for me, if I can hold a commitment to love
what they are. I am not necessarily looking for a replacement to mention she
was sick,,, " Love your husband love your wife ..... ..... love your
kids
Memorandum:
The story described above is similar to that faced by my
story in keeping paralyzed wife (next to
the body - right) has now been almost 15 years to reach past my guard ....
Alhamdulillah Allah give guidance to me to continue faithful to our love ....
At this time I'm try to published the stories ...
God willing, when it is published later you can keep track of the
story of this truth.
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